relationships

  • Villain Era

    Sometimes it is necessary to be the villain. I don’t mean being needlessly cruel or mean or unkind for no reason. I mean setting firm boundaries, saying no, being less available, and walking away. For most of my life I tried to be the “good girl.” Never said no, went out of my way to…

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  • We are taught that being selfish is a bad thing. We are expected to be selfless, be available, put others before ourselves. We are even told that saying no is mean. This goes especially if you are a woman. Women are expected to be sacrificial lambs. I used to live my life like that. I…

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