mental-health

  • I would tell my 20-year-old self to be careful who you allow into your life. Anyone can call themselves a friend but, not everyone wearing a friendly face has good intentions. You will discover that many of your “friends” are snakes. Some gossip about you, some are secretly competing with you, some are using you…

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  • I never considered minimalism before. But I see why it appeals to a lot of people. It probably saves money and they don’t have to worry about clutter. I will admit I like to shop. But I also realize that I have wasted a lot of money and now I’m dealing with clutter. So, minimalism…

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  • Just a Ramble

    I have been working on posting more. But I’m not always sure what to write about. I’m still figuring out my own life and trying new things. I began a class for school a few weeks ago. Microeconomics, and it is very interesting but a little confusing at times. Doesn’t help that I have been…

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  • Villain Era

    Sometimes it is necessary to be the villain. I don’t mean being needlessly cruel or mean or unkind for no reason. I mean setting firm boundaries, saying no, being less available, and walking away. For most of my life I tried to be the “good girl.” Never said no, went out of my way to…

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  • I have been thinking a lot about finances lately. Started learning about financial literacy and trying to shop more intentionally. I was at Ulta yesterday for a new exfoliator and I wanted to smell some perfume. I didn’t buy any, but I did get my exfoliator as well as some new eyeliner. I did feel…

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  • Lack of Posting

    I know I haven’t been posting for a while. Been dealing with a lot of things. Work has gotten a little more chaotic and I haven’t been sleeping too well. I’ve also been dealing with issues with my inner ear and planning a novel as well as writing a fanfiction. I do want to keep…

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  • Where Can I Reduce Clutter?

    I currently have a very small room to myself. I still live with family so, I don’t have a lot of space. My room is cozy, but it is very cluttered, a girl likes to shop. I have gotten rid of some things, and it looks like I could stand to get rid of more.…

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  • Habits I’m Leaving Behind

    With 2025 coming to an end, I figured it would be a good idea to leave some bad habits behind. Habits that held me back, caused me extra headaches and anxiety. With the new year coming up I want to do better and focus. So, I have listed a few things that don’t serve me.…

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  • Night or Morning Person

    I consider myself a night person. I get up early to go to work and because of that I have to go to bed early. I want to enjoy my nights more though. For me, night is when everything slows down. People are turning in and winding down from a chaotic day. For me, it’s…

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  • Following the Voice Within

    Yes. You can’t afford not to. That’s what I think. I have been putting my well-being and safety first, listening to my intuition is part of that. I remember a job I had, there was a guy I was working with. He was very cute. However, something in me told me not to be alone…

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