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  • Just a Ramble

    I have been working on posting more. But I’m not always sure what to write about. I’m still figuring out my own life and trying new things. I began a class for school a few weeks ago. Microeconomics, and it is very interesting but a little confusing at times. Doesn’t help that I have been…

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  • Villain Era

    Sometimes it is necessary to be the villain. I don’t mean being needlessly cruel or mean or unkind for no reason. I mean setting firm boundaries, saying no, being less available, and walking away. For most of my life I tried to be the “good girl.” Never said no, went out of my way to…

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  • I have been thinking a lot about finances lately. Started learning about financial literacy and trying to shop more intentionally. I was at Ulta yesterday for a new exfoliator and I wanted to smell some perfume. I didn’t buy any, but I did get my exfoliator as well as some new eyeliner. I did feel…

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  • Following the Voice Within

    Yes. You can’t afford not to. That’s what I think. I have been putting my well-being and safety first, listening to my intuition is part of that. I remember a job I had, there was a guy I was working with. He was very cute. However, something in me told me not to be alone…

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  • I have a friend that I’ve known since childhood. We met in elementary school, had the same teacher. We grew up together, went to middle and high school together. We had sleep overs, shared secrets and were even in marching band and anime club together. However, there was probably some underlying competition on her part.…

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  • We are taught that being selfish is a bad thing. We are expected to be selfless, be available, put others before ourselves. We are even told that saying no is mean. This goes especially if you are a woman. Women are expected to be sacrificial lambs. I used to live my life like that. I…

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  • Being a Solitary Person

    I am a person that likes silence. I value my privacy and me time. In my opinion, being solitary is peaceful and reduces stress. I even consider silence and solitude to be my best friends. When I am home alone, the atmosphere feels, lighter. I feel like I can breathe, stretch out, and relax. There…

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