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  • Night or Morning Person

    I consider myself a night person. I get up early to go to work and because of that I have to go to bed early. I want to enjoy my nights more though. For me, night is when everything slows down. People are turning in and winding down from a chaotic day. For me, it’s…

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  • Beach or Mountains

    So far, I have only been to the beach. I love the ocean. To me it’s very rejuvenating. I like the way the waves wash over my feet. The way the sand feels. I also like watching the waves and the boats cruising along. It’s very peaceful to me. Not a fan of the crowd…

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  • What am I reading Response

    I am reading The Blade Itself by Joe Abercrombie, a British author. It was his published in 2006, and I like it so far. I’m still at the beginning but the story and characters are interesting. I am trying to read more, after all writers are readers. I will admit I am a bit of…

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  • Three Years from Now

    Three years from now, hopefully I’ll be traveling. I mentioned in a previous post that I am afraid of traveling alone but, I think that is a fear I’m going to have to face. Otherwise, my dream will never come true. I already know what countries I want to visit. And I plan on learning…

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  • A reflective look at ending a childhood friendship due to competition, one‑upping, and spiritual toxicity. How to recognize unsafe patterns, protect your peace, and choose yourself with quiet strength. Some friendships don’t end with a fight. They end with clarity. I’ve known her since second grade. We grew up together — same classes, same clubs,…

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  • Lessons From the Past

    There are many times I wish I could re-live. I would do so many things differently if time travel was a thing. Would have taken going to college seriously the first time I went. Would have picked different friends, most of them turned out to be snakes. Would definitely redo high school again too. Especially…

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  • A Dream of Traveling

    I would like to travel. Something I have always wanted to do. I used to look at maps all the time when I was a teenager. I want to visit countries like Germany, Italy, and England. Probably the Czech Republic too. There are a few things holding me back. The biggest one is the fear…

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  • Being a Solitary Person

    I am a person that likes silence. I value my privacy and me time. In my opinion, being solitary is peaceful and reduces stress. I even consider silence and solitude to be my best friends. When I am home alone, the atmosphere feels, lighter. I feel like I can breathe, stretch out, and relax. There…

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  • Being a Late Bloomer

    I will admit that I think I should be further in life than I am now. That I should be living on my own somewhere, making a lot of money. It bothers me a lot sometimes that I’m not. I feel like I am behind in life. I actually feel like a loser. I have…

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