thirty something

  • Habits I’m Leaving Behind

    With 2025 coming to an end, I figured it would be a good idea to leave some bad habits behind. Habits that held me back, caused me extra headaches and anxiety. With the new year coming up I want to do better and focus. So, I have listed a few things that don’t serve me.

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  • I would have it in a room that is small, maybe one window. I would not over crowd it either because it would be too distracting to me. There would be desk and comfortable black chair for writing. I would also have a coffee maker and a mini refrigerator to keep half and half in.

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  • I have made mistakes when it came to the people I had in my life. Kept the wrong ones, allowed the wrong ones in. It’s a lesson I am still learning. I used to be the person who wanted to see the good in others. Because of that I overlooked red flags and tolerated disrespect.

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  • Night or Morning Person

    I consider myself a night person. I get up early to go to work and because of that I have to go to bed early. I want to enjoy my nights more though. For me, night is when everything slows down. People are turning in and winding down from a chaotic day. For me, it’s

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  • Beach or Mountains

    So far, I have only been to the beach. I love the ocean. To me it’s very rejuvenating. I like the way the waves wash over my feet. The way the sand feels. I also like watching the waves and the boats cruising along. It’s very peaceful to me. Not a fan of the crowd

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  • What am I reading Response

    I am reading The Blade Itself by Joe Abercrombie, a British author. It was his published in 2006, and I like it so far. I’m still at the beginning but the story and characters are interesting. I am trying to read more, after all writers are readers. I will admit I am a bit of

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  • Three Years from Now

    Three years from now, hopefully I’ll be traveling. I mentioned in a previous post that I am afraid of traveling alone but, I think that is a fear I’m going to have to face. Otherwise, my dream will never come true. I already know what countries I want to visit. And I plan on learning

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  • I have a friend that I’ve known since childhood. We met in elementary school, had the same teacher. We grew up together, went to middle and high school together. We had sleep overs, shared secrets and were even in marching band and anime club together. However, there was probably some underlying competition on her part.

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  • Lessons From the Past

    There are many times I wish I could re-live. I would do so many things differently if time travel was a thing. Would have taken going to college seriously the first time I went. Would have picked different friends, most of them turned out to be snakes. Would definitely redo high school again too. Especially

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  • A Dream of Traveling

    I would like to travel. Something I have always wanted to do. I used to look at maps all the time when I was a teenager. I want to visit countries like Germany, Italy, and England. Probably the Czech Republic too. There are a few things holding me back. The biggest one is the fear

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